Breaking Cruelty with Compassion

The poverty of R’ Pinchas Yehoshua of Tcherin is hard for us to grasp. He was so poor, he could only afford to rent a hovel with a dirt floor, and it cost him five rubles a year. One year’s rent was so difficult for him that he was forced to put off paying it. The next year brought no relief, and again he deferred payment. After seven years of delaying, his landlord finally had had enough. “You owe me thirty-five rubles for these past seven years. If you don’t pay me within the next few weeks, I will evict you!”

Having no choice, R’ Pinchas Yehoshua visited R’ Abbaleh, a very wealthy man in town who was known to be quite stingy. The poor man walked into R’ Abbaleh’s resplendent home and crossed through many rooms until he finally reached the inner sanctum. He poured out his tale of woe, whereupon R’ Abbaleh gave him a donation of five rubles. “You can collect the rest from other chassidim,” he said gruffly.

R’ Pinchas Yehoshua thanked him from the bottom of his heart and took his leave. But as he reached the end of the next room, he heard R’ Abbaleh calling him back. “Why don’t you take another five rubles? That way, you will have almost a third of the sum you require.”

Again R’ Pinchas Yehoshua expressed his heartfelt gratitude and exited the room. But he hadn’t left the next room before he heard R’ Abbaleh’s return summons. The wealthy man gave him another five rubles and explained that he now had almost half the required sum. R’ Pinchas Yehoshua thanked him sincerely and again set out.

This pattern repeated itself until R’ Pinchas Yehosha had received the entire sum he needed.

When the Breslovers heard this story, they were impressed. Rabbi Levi Yitzchok Bender explained, “It is clear that R’ Abbaleh had to struggle mightily to give the entire sum. Initially, his mercy was aroused and he gave a little. Then he roused his pity gradually, in stages, until eventually he covered the entire sum. He followed Rebbe Nachman’s advice that one breaks his cruelty by transforming it into compassion.”

Based on Siach Sarfey Kodesh V:208

Author: Yehudis Golshevsky

Yehudis in her own words: When I first began learning Rebbe Nachman’s teachings with my husband and other teachers, I felt as though I had come home to the personal and vital relationship with G-d that I’d always sought. Today, a large part of my inspiration comes from helping other Jewish women discover their own spiritual potential through the meaningful teachings of Breslov Chassidut. Yehudis Golshevsky has been teaching Torah classes to women and working in Torah publishing for nearly twenty years. She’s a graduate of Yavne Teacher’s Seminary in Cleveland and holds a degree in Judaic Studies from SUNY at Buffalo. Currently, Yehudis is a contributor to Breslov.org and “Pathways”, the Breslov Research Institute’s weekly publication. Since 2006, she’s been taking women’s groups to Uman and other sites in Ukraine for prayer and study. Yehudis lives with her family in Jerusalem.

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