Be Patient With Yourself!

Hold On! Patience!
Meshivat Nefesh #52
Reb Nosson taught that there’s one powerful remedy that keeps us from getting discouraged by all of our challenges and our fallings and failures, especially when we really have spiritual aspirations and cannot seem to bring them into reality.

It’s called patience.

Patience doesn’t only mean not getting upset when the bus doesn’t come, when the traffic doesn’t unclog, when your friend leaves you waiting at the restaurant.

The main quality of patience is what we exercise with ourselves, by taking the long breath of acceptance of our situation and ourselves as it is right now, as we are right now. It is fueled by trust that God is constantly renewing creation from moment to moment, and just because our situation at this moment in time isn’t exactly as we want it to be, change is always possible…because there is no situation that is irredeemable.

Patience is nurtured by faith in God’s lovingkindness and compassion. If, until now, I haven’t seen the progress I’ve longed for, that doesn’t mean that I never will. I can be patient and hold on, and allow the spirit of renewal that constantly fills creation to take hold of me too.
Dear God,
Please help me to remember
that time takes time,
and that spiritual growth does not arrive on my timetable.
Please fill me with patience
for myself,
for others,
and for waiting for Your good will to unfold…
no matter how long that takes.
(LH: Hilchot Tefillin 5:6)

Author: Yehudis Golshevsky

Yehudis in her own words: When I first began learning Rebbe Nachman’s teachings with my husband and other teachers, I felt as though I had come home to the personal and vital relationship with G-d that I’d always sought. Today, a large part of my inspiration comes from helping other Jewish women discover their own spiritual potential through the meaningful teachings of Breslov Chassidut. Yehudis Golshevsky has been teaching Torah classes to women and working in Torah publishing for nearly twenty years. She’s a graduate of Yavne Teacher’s Seminary in Cleveland and holds a degree in Judaic Studies from SUNY at Buffalo. Currently, Yehudis is a contributor to Breslov.org and “Pathways”, the Breslov Research Institute’s weekly publication. Since 2006, she’s been taking women’s groups to Uman and other sites in Ukraine for prayer and study. Yehudis lives with her family in Jerusalem.

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